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No, No—she may see herself as a sex object only, even though you love her and you know she loves you. Save that stuff for later. Go out and buy her a white or ivory/cream long gown and matching robe, something classic and elegant//not some big fluffy bath robe, not see thru, can have spaghetti (very thin) straps, but something feminine, but not cheap looking—let store personnel help you. You want to say to her first and foremost, you are my lady, my elegant beautiful bride. Have some candles lit and perhaps a small gift, a necklace, something heart shaped to make this most special night memorable—–believe me, if you make her feel special and loved and not just something used for sex, you will be well pleased. Not knowing your culture, it may take a while for her to “catch on”/learn everything, but, hey couples have been doing this for years. Give her some time, be patient, just love her slowly, your patience will be rewarded. She will treasure(gown set) this and wear it on special occasions and it will bring back many good, happy and special (I hope) memories, say wear on anniversary date, etc. This will make her feel like a bride, someone to be special, treasured, yes you and she both want and I do not like to say have sex, because it is not that, it is making love to each other. There is an old saying that goes something like this, every man wants a lady in the kitchen and a _____ in the bedroom. Remember what goes on behind closed doors stays there.

Yeah, you can ask her.